asylum

Asylum Evalulations

Ola  is a 28-year-old Black man who came to the United States seeking asylum due to the conditions in his home country, Mauritania (officially, the Islamic Republic of Mauritania). Mauritania, a country in West Africa, is largely discriminatory against their Black population. Despite the fact that slavery was criminalized in Mauritania in 2007, it stillContinue reading Asylum Evalulations

shame

Shame Resilience: A DBT Approach

Shame can be one of the most uncomfortable emotions we experience. It can be triggered by a host of events or internal experiences, including rejection (or fear of rejection); being belittled, made fun of, criticized, or betrayed;  comparing ourselves to others, or just thinking that we’re  not good enough. When we experience shame, we mightContinue reading Shame Resilience: A DBT Approach

validation

Validation Fails

Validation is one of our most important interpersonal skills. The ability to validate effectively can significantly improve our relationships. And being able to validate someone in a given moment can make or break an interaction. So what does it take to validate? In this two-part blog series, we’ll look at some common validation failures asContinue reading Validation Fails

VAWA

VAWA Immigration Evalutations

Alejandra came to the United States from Venezuela and, after a few months, started dating a U.S. citizen. They had a romantic courtship and married a little after a year. Alejandra couldn’t wait to start a family with her loving new spouse. But soon after they married, his behavior changed. He started criticizing and humiliatingContinue reading VAWA Immigration Evalutations